Again with the confusion

Do people just not understand how other people perceive their actions? Or maybe they just don't care. So I continue to have drama in my life and people continue to confuse the crap out of me. So I will begin my second story and FYI you have to read the first post for this one to make sense.

So guy #1 has been acting very strangely. Mr. "I don't want a relationship" is apparently telling his girlfriend of oh a month that he loves her and went to spent this past weekend meeting her parents who live out of town. However, the confusing part came last weekend when he started getting all nice and almost flirty with me culminating with him asking me to go get drinks with him last Wednesday night. I was SOOO proud of myself because I politely declined. So right now we're doing this whole thing of me not existing whenever the girlfriend is around but us being super nice to each other when she isn't. I am trying to be optimist about this and say maybe he just wants to be friends and that is how he acts towards friends who are girls but I just don't know. I do know that I don't want to be put in the position of being the other woman because that would cross everything I have ever stood for as far as that subject goes.

Okay so guy #2 and I have been seeing each other pretty regularly for the past few months (at least one to two times per week) out side of work. I have been having an awesome time with him even though he still says he is not ready for a relationship. Everything overall is going great but there are times that I just feel that he doesn't have any consideration for me and my feelings. Example one) not too long after we started hanging out consistently his ex-girlfriend(whom he is still somewhat friends with) started blowing up his phone one night while we were hanging out. I'm talking calling him every minute (which she does a lot anyway he just usually doesn't answer). Well this time he did and he asked me not to say anything so she wouldn't know we were together because he didn't want to fight with her. well of course this led to a fight between us and then it totally blew up when he asked me to leave so he could hang out with her since she was going out of town. And might I add this is the same girl that yells at and belittles him every time they talk but yet he still wanted to hang out with her. So eventually I got over that. But this weekend he did something very similar. Sunday is the only day I have to sleep in and he knows that but at 10:30 on Sunday morning I get a phone call waking me up. I was pleasantly suprised to hear his voice that early in the morning and he asked me to come over and watch the football game with him (my team was playing). I, of course, was very excited and immediately got up to take a shower. 20 minutes later my phone rings again and it's him. He tells me that his team's game is being shown up at a local pub and he wants to go up there with his friends instead of watching the game with me but promises to hang out with me later. Needless to say I am not happy about this. We do hang out later and watch another game but his friend from out of town comes over about half way through the game and I feel pretty much ignored. Then after the game I'm expecting to hang out but instead my guy tells me that he is going out with his friend. When I get upset he doesn't understand why, even though we discuss in detail at this point how i felt about being ditched that morning. He doesn't see what the big deal is (or he says he doesn't) since we hung out anyway.

So again, I just don't get it! Anybody who reads this is more than welcome to impart their words of wisom whether I know you or not.